By
Jane Ling
Most women find men hard to figure out. They are different
animals than us women and this creates a lot of confusion and
misunderstanding in everyday situations. Now, let's address a much more
complicated situation - you finally found a man that you like and you
are very interested in creating a relationship with that man. So, how
can you make that happen, without being too aggressive, thus potentially
putting him off? In other words - you want to know how to make him fall
for you.
Well, here are some tactics you can use to make this happen. They were all tested in the real life:
1. Keep your independence. A needy person is a huge turn off. Men like independent women who have a life of their own. So don't make him feel you're waiting just for him to call. Go out there and do stuff. Get together with your friend, go to the gym, dedicated time to hobbies and so on. The thing is - don't be too reachable, too easily.
2. Make him feel important. Compliment him about his career, his car, his status... Whatever he's achieved in life, even if it's a small achievement, make him feel like he's "made it" in life. Most men have egos and they like to think of themselves as successful, even if they're not.
3. Be intriguing. It's important that you will spark your man's interest and keep him interested over time. To do that you need to be a little bit mysterious and not share too much information all at once. Everyone likes a bit of mystery and men are no different. When you start dating, you can initially leave out details about your history, even if the guy asks you about them. Don't be afraid to tell him that you will "leave that for later". This will only increase his will to learn more about you and will have him coming back for more.
4. Take good care of yourself. You really need to invest in yourself if you are to be an attractive and radiant woman which men are attracted to. So make sure you dedicate time to sleep well, exercise, eat healthy and generally treat yourself well. This will show on the outside and you will be much more attractive.
5. Don't get physical too fast. Always remember that men are chasers. They chase what they can't have and stop chasing when they get it. So the advice your grandmother told you about not getting physical too fast is essentially true. You need time to get to know each other, and develop a real emotional connection. Getting physical too fast interrupts this process and takes the relationship to a casual route. If you don't want that to happen, you need to hold off the physical intimacy to a later stage.
The 5 tips above are a good basis for creating a meaningful relationship with a man. Try to act in the spirit of things, and use your good judgment to create the results you want in your life.
Well, here are some tactics you can use to make this happen. They were all tested in the real life:
1. Keep your independence. A needy person is a huge turn off. Men like independent women who have a life of their own. So don't make him feel you're waiting just for him to call. Go out there and do stuff. Get together with your friend, go to the gym, dedicated time to hobbies and so on. The thing is - don't be too reachable, too easily.
2. Make him feel important. Compliment him about his career, his car, his status... Whatever he's achieved in life, even if it's a small achievement, make him feel like he's "made it" in life. Most men have egos and they like to think of themselves as successful, even if they're not.
3. Be intriguing. It's important that you will spark your man's interest and keep him interested over time. To do that you need to be a little bit mysterious and not share too much information all at once. Everyone likes a bit of mystery and men are no different. When you start dating, you can initially leave out details about your history, even if the guy asks you about them. Don't be afraid to tell him that you will "leave that for later". This will only increase his will to learn more about you and will have him coming back for more.
4. Take good care of yourself. You really need to invest in yourself if you are to be an attractive and radiant woman which men are attracted to. So make sure you dedicate time to sleep well, exercise, eat healthy and generally treat yourself well. This will show on the outside and you will be much more attractive.
5. Don't get physical too fast. Always remember that men are chasers. They chase what they can't have and stop chasing when they get it. So the advice your grandmother told you about not getting physical too fast is essentially true. You need time to get to know each other, and develop a real emotional connection. Getting physical too fast interrupts this process and takes the relationship to a casual route. If you don't want that to happen, you need to hold off the physical intimacy to a later stage.
The 5 tips above are a good basis for creating a meaningful relationship with a man. Try to act in the spirit of things, and use your good judgment to create the results you want in your life.
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